Old 05-22-2013, 11:06 PM
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LeSigh
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Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Scotland
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Total sense. You're doing great.


When I asked my stbxah to move out, I felt like an elastic band. I had slowly stretched and deformed and stretched some more. I was at the point where I could either stretch a little further and break, or use all the pent up energy in the stretch to ping off and land somewhere else.

Seems like you know you're at the point of maximum stretch, and the joy in your words about a new place and a new life tell me it's a springing point rather than the edge of breaking.

It'll be up and down, even though separate lives would clearly be your best option, and you are ready to make the move.. change is sometimes hard and can often surprise you with pain in places you may not expect.. (Like my body after a gym session!) But that's okay. Feel the feelings of pain and let them pass..

Peace and love and joy for you and your daughter, it's just around the corner.

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