Lexie- Yes he is paying child support -- there is a temporary order- probably will remain exactly as it is when/if this is ever finalized... So yes he is paying (though very little bc I make close to the same as him right now)... He would have to pay more if I make substantially less and I am letting my worry about how he might react to that control me I guess... I don't think I realized that until I typed it out-- hmmm....
I am excited by the offer and prospect... I have a lot of thinking to do I think