I hired a personal oragnizer. I am horrible at filing, and was having trouble keeping up once the husband dropped out of household participation.
Not only did she whip things into shape, but she whipped me into shape. She pushed me to examines the whys behind my reluctuance to engage in certain tasks and helped me brainstorm work-arounds. She taught me ways to tackle projects that were outside of what I would have ever come up with. It was like therapy. Best of luck with yours.