Originally Posted by
Florence 
Google "Unfu** Your Habitat." With the "ck".
It seems silly, and it's kind of like flylady, but it's keyed into people who have disabilities and are overwhelmed by the size and scope of the household mess.
Hey, thanks! I relate to the swearing and cursing. FlyLady is too cutesy/chirpy for me.
It looks like there are some good tips there, and it should help once I figure out the overall scheme of what I am trying to accomplish. I feel like I need to see the big picture--to get a bit of a roadmap, so to speak. Otherwise I tend to wind up re-doing stuff because once I do another part, it turns out I should have done the first part differently.
I hate to sound so helpless when it comes to this stuff. I can do so many quite complicated things well. (Trying a murder case, for example.
)There are just certain things where I have a block, and this is one of them (finances are another--retirement planning, and such--I've got someone at the place that handles our retirement plan working on that piece for me).