Originally Posted by
Legend40 
ok lets say hypothetically that i go to a few meetings, how would i even know how to pick a sponsor and honestly, would i really need one?
how to pick one: i would suggest sitting back and listening for a few meetings. listen for sobriety( you'll hear it). your sponsor will appear.
do you need one? no, it isnt a requirement( the only requiremtn for membership is a desire to stop drinking).
but it is highly recommended. a sponsor is someone who has some time under their belt sober, has worked the steps, practices the principles of the program in all their affairs, and can guide you through it.
heres a good read on what a sponsor is:
http://www.aa.org/pdf/products/p-15_Q&AonSpon.pdf