Originally Posted by
Jeni26 
'I don't look like a smoker'. I like that. I guess that's because I'm not a smoker....
It's like I'm 2 different people...and I like the non-smoker better.
And I will create that picture of myself as a non-smoker, good strategy. Thank you so much.
So let's work with that idea then. This Non Smoking Jen - what is she like? I would think that she is smart, self-possessed, graceful, classy, well-mannered. She looks fresh, pleasant company, someone deserving of respect.
I know that everyone will like the non-smoker MUCH better, and most important, you will like her too.
I believe in you, Jen, and your ability. Onward!