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Old 05-17-2013, 01:18 PM
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Black Bird
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A Dilemma

Hi, I am 7 days sober and I am going to AA.

At my 3rd meeting, the mother of a friend of mine was there. I felt uncomfortable right away. She ended up telling my friend, her daughter, I now go to AA. This friend is an addict who is not in recovery. My friend text me today telling me her and her mother were discussing me and my need for a sponsor, she recommended someone her mom mentioned. I told my friend I was not comfortable with her mom discussing me, my addiction, or AA outside of AA or with anyone!

My Dilemma is I love the AA group I go to and I don't want to switch. I just got comfortable and I am so bad with sober confrontation. Do I move if my friends mom tries to sit by me at a meeting? Do I tell her to stop discussing me? I'm stressing out over this.
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