Well, if you guys are seriously considering marriage- this may be a good time to seek out short-term counseling, and work through the issue. My husband is sober with me, to support me now. I find myself in NO position to assess whether he has a problem. But, I DO (have a problem) and I'm super grateful for his support- especially so early on. However, I'm responsible for me and it's my choice to abstain. I have no intention of holding him accountable for my choices. It's on ME. You are able to abstain with a variety of different people around you in different situations, that are drinking. Why do you think it's more important for your sobriety, if SHE doesn't drink? I'd like to hear your thought process, to help me in the future if resentment arises in my relationship... TY.
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