And, I just saw you found a place. Okay, great. now remember, you DON'T have to move in right away. If it's safer, move things slowly. Get secondhand items from where-ever you can, the crisis center should be able to help with that. Worry about the important things, not the trivial things. Dishes, furniture? Ehh, those can be found for cheap secondhand no problem. Computer? Take it. Family pictures, digital cameras, memory cards, take them.