They've done the right thing; to not do o is condoning it, and makes them codependents. It's what Al Anon, correctly, would urge. THey can't continue to support your addiction. Now it's your turn to do the right thing; I started with rehab to detox and gain discipline, then moved on to AA where I use what I need from the program and leave the rest. I'll have two years 5-23-13.