Concerning my love interest I just want to know if always referring to 'before' is something most recovering alcoholic do.
If my friend told me why he doesn't approve of my dating this man I would consider it. My friends says AA is anonymous therefore he cannot tell me why he doesn't want me to date him. Is the anonymity of AA more important than protecting a woman from an abuser? If my love interest talks about beating up his ex girlfriend during AA meetings would that be wrong to warn me?
I asked my friend if he feared for my security. He said no.