No good enough excuse to pick up a drink. Next time come in here and ask for help first. It works. I have seen it work.
Are you holding onto some reservations? Sometimes we don't tell our loved ones we are absolutely done cuz we want to leave that little opening for weakness. We don't want to commit so we can get away with it one more time or in case we change our mind. Are you done?
If you are,
Gotta take a stand, Mom, I am done drinking, Sis I am done drinking.Don't offer me a drink ever. I am done drinking.
If they don't support that , then you need to not be around them when they are drinking.
If you are not willing to tell them that, then you are not done drinking.