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Old 05-12-2013, 05:10 PM
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nothopeful1
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Originally Posted by DadofOne View Post
Agreed on all points. I think I will see over the next two weeks if she does move out. If not, then it's a me or her situation, regardless of the fact that she does her job at work as this is constantly thrown at me by them both.
I have been there my friend. And 2 weeks turns into 6 months. And everyday I became sicker because of my AH. I turned into the FBI, Police, mother, prisoner. You name it. I spent my days monitoring phone logs, emails, Facebook, credit card statements. All because I wouldn't believe what I was living until I had proof. And when I got that proof, it wasn't enough. I was so caught up in seeing how duplicitous he was. It was never enough.

You KNOW what to do. You know. Do it. For yourself and the other kids involved. Don't make this y'all's life. Everyday for 6 months I made no plans. I woke up and wondered where his sickness would take me to that day. No more
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