Thanks-Some Clarity on Timeine
My daughter addictions began or were ongoing when I started to see her mom back in 2007.
This has went on for years now. The new boyfriend has slept over for 7 weekends since we moved into our new house.
They go through 2 cases of beer a 26 oz and a Mickey between a fri-sat.
Now they are apparently looking at a place to move in together. But yes, co dependency is in full bloom.
I do also want to point out that My daughters' real father died at 43 of anxiety, as I've been told, when she had just rediscovered him and started using him as her bank at the time. She was only 14. She carries guilt with that memory.