Let me say , everything is better without the drugs. ( wine) Obsession and addiction with brainwashing make you think everything is better with wine, early days after stopping of course your going to feel like this , I was exactly the same with nicotine as I was alcohol. I thought nothing would be the same without them, the longer I stay sober the longer I pity anyone that drinks and I mean drink any amount of alcohol. Alcohol steals everything from you and just gives you back an illusion.
Only as I get near to 18 months sober I am starting to see that this " is the way to live" sober and real. Grind out the early days weeks , cravings are just thoughts all part of the drug addiction package. You are losing absolutely nothing and gaining everything from staying sober, give yourself enough sober time so you might actually see this.
Good luck, sober is cool.