That's a terrific decision! Why stress yourself out timewise on your own birthday? Get that massage and enjoy it!
It's someone's birthday today in my life, and I've been stressed out trying to get it together, everything right, and just plain get it all done on time.
Birthdays shouldn't be about stress.
A little pampering isn't a bad thing though...
If you don't like eating out on your birthday, then don't! Say It's MY birthday, and I don't like eating out. I've been eating out for years on my birthday, and it's not what I ever wanted, so no more! To thine own self be true!