Weasel, I was going to comment on your other thread but felt I couldn't because I didn't know where you lived. The place we live can make a huge difference in our behavior--I live ten miles from the nearest store, whereas you can apparently walk to bars and liquor stores.
My location is shown under my avatar. I think it's helpful to list your location because sometimes others in your area need advice that is specific to a certain locality. I don't care if somebody somehow figures out who I am, all the shameful stuff is in my past.