Hi, Dwaind. Welcome to SR.
Originally Posted by
Dwaind 
Hi,
...only in the evening, never during the day, and if we go out for a meal and I drive I don't touch a drop, the challange is, when I do have a drink its difficult to stop, if I don't start I am fine, I can go for extended periods without a drink, so long as I am occupied, if I am bored, thats it, I open a bottle of wine. Having said that I will normally stop after one bottle.
This is pretty much similar to the pattern I used to follow.
Now, looking back at myself a half a year ago I realize I did have a problem.
This mask of addiction maybe not that pronounced as in case of daily drinkers, but it's still slippery slope. It's kind of illusion of control. Addiction plays a tricky game with us.
My advice is - stop this game, there's no use gambling health and life.
Best wishes to you. It's a great place of support to give a try and maintain your sobriety. And it's definitely worth trying and keeping.
Take care, keep posting.