Myth-
Thanks for your great post. I do come on SR less and less but, once in a while I need the reality check of reading a newcomer post and thinking "yep that could be me". I am big into the whole PIF thing so yeah helping a newcomer or a friend. Still I too will not give myself "permission to relapse". I really like the way you put that. I am in it for the long run, with me, hanging out sober. There is nothing a drink can make better for me at this point. Jess