Wife repressing memory?
Hello folks. Some advice please. 20 years ago, I got involved with a woman who had been a long time friend of mine and my family. I was going through a divorce, and she made herself very available to me. I fell...hard. What ensued was 4 years of chaos and emotional upheaval culminating with her going into an inpatient detox and recovery center for alcoholism. Upon her release from treatment, it was clear that she had gotten romantically involved with one of the men in her program group, and I also found out that she had been cheating on me for virtually every day of our relationship. With several men, including an old boyfriend who had beaten the crap out of her. At that point, I told her that I couldn't stay in a relationship with her.
After a couple of months of no contact, she called me and said she wants to go into therapy with me and try and put our relationship together. I agree, and we work with a therapist for more than a year, and eventually we marry. Flash forward 16 years. I asked her casually about the ex-boyfriend, and she claims she doesn’t remember any of it, that she never did any of that stuff, and she doesn’t even remember having an AA workbook. Needless to say, I’m gobsmacked totally. Repressed memory?