YOU know you have a problem. You've posted about it many times in many different ways and you only have 29 post here. I'm not sure why you continue to look to or listen to friends and family about it. Is it to talk yourself out of knowing what you already know?
Me, personally? I don't give a rats butt what others think, they're not in my head. I know the truth and refuse to engage others or allow others to engage me in conversation about it. It's a cop out.
And, yes, I'm in a crabby mood today.