I am glad you finally have a restraining order and have changed the locks, but like others, I am very concerned for your safety. Do you have a dog? I worry about him simply breaking into your house, and it's true, all it really takes is one moment and his problem is solved in his eyes. I would rescue the biggest, toughest looking pit bull that is good with children. I adopted my dog when I had drug users living next door, and I never worried about them taking my stuff, Georgia is very protective. As an added bonus, the girls would have a new friend to play with.