Thanks Ann... Yes, as long as he blames me, he doesn't need to take responsibility. I thought the same. I ended the conversation with 'u always blame the others esp me. It makes your life easier.'
My councilor said that I alway rethink about what I might have done wrong in the past but he, as an active addict, wouldn't do it.
(And Madison),
Yes.. Thanks for reminder. I guess that I shouldn't think that he's ready to give up addiction in new environment now as he's still irrational.