My hubby, who is in recovery, seems to be "doing" all the right things. There are a couple on the list that are questionable, but, I too am new to all this so I just don't know.
I question if he is really "doing" his work or bluffing. At this point, I really don't care. His years of crazy making, of lying and hiding from me and the relationship have completely ruined any and all trust for me.