Ive been using SMART to help me cope with all thats been happening since my husbands relapse on coke/alcohol. I have not posted on the forum there, but I met someone here that led me there. I have attended the family meetings and got lost in their toolbox, and articles too. I am reading from the Family Guide, and also the Get Your Loved One Sober book. It has helped me a lot, and made me feel more comfortable. AND OMG the meetings.. I was pretty upset the first one, and it is an audio meeting. The people are so kind, and their voices so soothing. It made me feel right at home. I havent talked to a lot of people about my husband, and this has helped me.