Sounds like you need to find your own route to sobriety texansfan
And that's no bad thing. It's not surprising that your wife isn't jumping up with support and I can understand how advice from parents isn't exactly the most productive. Sometimes I think we think that by making a grand gesture and say we will quit forever is enough, but this really is an inside job and how others perceive what we're doing is much less important than the path we're on ourselves. I know you will find lots of support and information about quitting here. Have a look at the secular connections forum if you are uncomfortable with AA, though most new things are uncomfortable at first, sobriety is a big adjustment, and that anger you said you were feeling is something that passes with time. But there are tons of different approaches to quitting drinking and I am sure one of them will suit you and help you on your way. Glad you're here x