Sasha, I am sure you are good at something! Everyone has something that they can do better than other people, even if it is something intangible like being a good listener. Be nice to yourself x
Good question Acheleus. To be honest my only goals have been to stay sober and be happy so far. I must start thinking of others. To finish my degree would be a good one (just 2 years distance learning left) and to decorate my house. I have been living in it for years with bare plaster walls. It all comes lower priority to staying sober though.