Ok ..Ive been married to a highschool boyfriend that we broke up and found each other 20 so years ago. Well we married although I was pregnant when we got back in touch so he has been a perm fixture in my sons life. We married and Ive found out sooo much I cant even fit in here. So the reason Im talking is We went to eat and he continued to try to over control my 15 month son which YES I was offended!! We left in a fight and it esclated at home with him to saying the fight was my sons fault!! HES 1!! My anger went blind because my first instict was my son. But with all of that he admitted to popping to hydros and drinking beer and yager!! He acually hit my door so damn hard my son watching starting laughing thinking he was playing!! ADVICE!!!!!