Ur right, he does mention it from time to time that he thinks he may have a problem, I tell him he needs to talk to someone. But the next day, when he is not hungover, he says he is fine but just drank too much. But it's happening more and more. We have a four year old and a one year old. He is so good with the kids. And that's what is so confusing to me. It's like a light switch. Ur right, I don't understand it. I need to research more and convince him to talk to someone. But that is so hard to do. He is a former navy guy and is so stubborn, he thinks he can handle anything on his own.