Thank you for your reply. I haven't joined ALANON, but will. This is very hard as a parent. Im so proud she took this step in getting herself help, and she's done so good so far. I'm not sure if the visit this past weekend made this more difficult for her or what? Maybe seeing her daughter was too much, although it was a good day. I'm just not sure why she is suddenly being so persistent about coming home. ThAnks again