We would end up fighting abut the fact that I refused to fight about something.
I had the same thing! I just figured I had to deal with it, I was drinking at the time.
He said I was not "the same" as when we were first together. Yeah.
But when I got sober, OMG! Just because I did not want to discuss (endlessly) things I was not interested in, I was a dud. He would say I was not attractive anymore and he might as well go get someone else. Pffffft.
You know its over when that sounds like a relief. Because I would have peace.
And it was over for me. When my peace became more important than clinging to him.
Beth
Damn menopause! Sweating now! AAAAAARRRRRRGGGGHHH!
