Bluegalangal

I keep reading, and delving deeper. There is so much wisdom here it's really hard to take it all in, but I am looking. It's complicated by the problem that he stalks me so I have no expectation of privacy and can't share much. We went into marriage counseling originally because he wanted someone to tell me everything I was doing "wrong." It did result in him changing individual therapists and going to some meetings, so it's possible that progress is happening. But I really did just realise that the sessions are his vomiting rage catharsis that leave me shaken and him feeling "good" at the outpouring. And that's not helpful to me or to my state of mind.

I have my own therapist now, fingers crossed - first appt is next week.