So she's only drinking one bottle of a wine a night, (good grief) she's still drinking and making your life highly unpleasant. They truly are selfish, self absorbed ,know-it-alls once they get some liquid courage in them.
Time for some boundaries?
I remember having to go to work after many sleepless nights. It wore me real thin. And it eventually started to take a toll on my health and well being.
Wishing you peace, ( and a couple rolls of duct tape for her mouth)