Hi Hopefu11,
I hope things are going okay for you now. I apologize for not responding - after my son was arrested, I just kind of fell off the face of the earth. I actually just focused on school, knowing that he was in jail and clean, and then, knowing that he was in rehab and clean and SAFE. I hope you have been able to find a rehab and sober living. Is your child on a waiting list?