Originally Posted by
Tuffgirl 
When I read the definition above - I am struck by how closely it describes the abusive behavior done to loved ones by alcoholics in the throes of the disease. And folks - just because they have a "disease" doesn't make it ok to be treated poorly.
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I agree, the treatment the co-dependent(s) receive is way worse than the nurturing and support the A receives- until everyone is sick of it and have nothing left to give. So, I guess it's cruel for a totally tapped out person to seek out respite from the thing that is causing them to incur pain, hurt and constant stress. I don't think so...