There is no value in sacrificing your own happiness. You are just as important as she is. What you are doing isn't helping her, anyway.
Thank you very much for this, dandylion. I am saving this to my journal. So simple, and so true. (for me anyway
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Hayfmr,
Please leave her to her alcoholic madness. Anything that you do now is becoming a challenge for her to overcome.
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
Save yourself.
Beth