You need a swift kick in the butt! And I mean that in the most supportive manner.
Like my dad always said, "Indecision is not a decision."
Act, or don't act. But quit spinning around in the drain. If you want to wait three months to get a year sober before you make any major decision, fine. At least you've made a decision.
But then you still have to decide what to do for the next few months and sitting around bemoaning your current situation sounds like it could threaten your sobriety worse than change. Your isolation is self imposed. Get out. Volunteer. Take a class. Even a part-time job somewhere would break you out of your rut.
You can do this.