Originally Posted by
cerene 
PS I went over to the friends and family board but they have a different mindset that I'm not comfortable with. Thanks for your help.
Amen to that!
My spouse recently relapsed as well. I just saw this post of yours and am not certain if you are still returning to this thread or not so I don't want t write a lot yet.... but I shared my experience in the secular section under the thread 'help'.