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Old 03-29-2013, 12:10 PM
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It doesn't dampen the mood,EG---it augments it.

I,like you,find words hollow.Look at the totality of a person's life
and the truth is there for all to see.If someone is mislead by someone's
words---it is because they refuse to use their eyes.

AKA...."You say you are a highly successful surgeon.....and you live
in this dump?"

It's not rude,it's real. You are God's gift to women? A real catch?
So why did all those exes throw you back? Any woman with a brain would
hold on to that for as many decades as she could.

The truth is always there to see.Life cannot be faked for the long
term.It is that so many WISH to be deceived.WANT to believe.

The daddy-daughter thing comes to mind.Daughter brings home SUPER
guy who has the world by the tail----effortlessly.

Dad (me)...cuts through the BS in short order.Give me a few minutes on
Google and it can be easily established if he's a winner---or just some guy
who empties bedpans at some convalescent home.There are alot of "astronauts"
out there......many of them 40+ and living in Mom's basement!

It's not 'cuz Dad's are mean----it's because they KNOW life
plays for keeps.......and they don't want their daughters HURT.

Words can uplift,they can help---or they can hurt.But at the end of the
day they are only words.The day I chose to look the other way,ignore reality,
hence allowing this addictive disease enter my perimeter---is a day I'll always regret,
and one whose "cost" is reflected in my 700+ posts.

But make no mistake.I chose.The character defect was found not in her
words--but rather in MY decision to ignore what I knew to be true.
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