And sobriety, yes. That is the 1st thing I am actually working on. I just realize that I need to see myself as worth it to get it. Does that make sense? yes
hi Michelle,
thing is, for me thery were/are a circle, really, and self-reinforcing in either direction.
it's tough to believe you're worth much when you're getting drunk and falling, i found, but the seeing "i'm worth it" increases with sobriety, so being sober increases your seeing yourself as being worth getting it.
ouch, that's a baaaad sentence structure!
best wishes coming your way.