Like Robby Robot I also don't advocate the 'taper' method, but again you're bound to get advice both ways.
One of the things that really helps early on is to do something you enjoy, sober. I bet with your kids and your job etc, you don't get a lot of time on your own. Maybe you can call a friend and see a movie, just get out and do something different. And make sure you're sober for the activity! Sober fun creates happy sober memories, and it helps to have those to build on. Good luck.