Oh, that's the thing, I've never really dated either. LOL My friend is a coworker, and I invited him over to make cookies for New Year's Eve last year, and it kinda just went from there. Impressed me that while he brought over a six pack, he only had one, while I had two(his family did a craft beer exchange for Christmas)
Actual "dating" still scares the crap out of me. LOL And as I have full custody(x hasn't even been doing visitations) I don't have the free time, or the money to pay a sitter to actually go out on dates.