Legna,
Encouragement...Also, just because this is the 'Secular' post dies not mean we cannot believe in a 'God' or the concept of a 'Higher Power, Creator, etc' It does mean to me though, that I have chosen to take personal responsibility for my actions, and NOT use the concept of 'God' as a Fairy Godmother. I focus on 'Spirituality' as providing a basis for perspective...of powers that are greater than me, of things beyond my understanding, and proper perspective of my relationship to others around me in life..So, I will continue to pray for you and your wife...and I will continue to give you Encouragement.
RDBplus3