Welcome! And I applaud you for taking such proactive steps in helping yourself!!
In my opinion, a relationship has a much better chance of survival when one (but preferably both) parties are actively persuing recovery (that can include counseling, Al-Anon, Nar-Anon, other fellowships, etc.). Even if one person is pursuing the betterment of themselves, it can help.
Stick around. Share your story and journey. We'll walk with you!
gentle hugs
kindeyes