Happy Birthday, Florence!!
I used to get bitterly disappointed and let down by people's failure to make my day "special". Even when I was in college, I remember one birthday the only greeting card I got (in the mail) was from our family insurance agent! That seemed more insulting than not getting ANY.
I eventually learned to make my own "special" treats for my birthday. I planned something or bought something totally self-indulgent and I've gotten so I really enjoy those. I usually don't even tell people when my birthday is anymore. Just not that big a deal, and I don't have to deal with those nasty "expectations."
Hope the coming year brings you all KINDS of wonderful new beginnings!
Birthday hugs,