I have decided at age 62 I cannot be around my 67 yr. old sister. She's an ACA and was abused like me and she is mean. She has no empathy. She is a narcissist I have tried to love her my whole life. She was mean to our Mom. She was married 3 times. She has a missing piece- robbed from her when we were kids- by a mean alcoholic physically abusive Dad. I give her to her HP. I let go- because it just bites me in the a--. Her control and her anger- got to let it all go. Detach with love.