Yes, I understand I can step off. If I had to bet, do I think she will get a DUI or worse? Yes. Can I prove that? No. I guess that is my boundary. She doesn't think she has a problem and wants to continue as she is, fine. She is an adult capable of making her own decisions. My line in the sand is legal consequences. I refuse to pick up the slack of her bills while she pays lawyers and all the other great stuff involved with drinking. I'm not going to enable.
Did I make a poor choice buying a 6 pack for valentines night? I drank on a few while I cooked and after. 3 for me, 3 for her. Of course at 10:30 she was bummed it was her last beer, but no more alcohol was consumed(there is no more in the house and she didn't go to the store)