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Old 02-08-2013, 08:52 AM
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Recovering2
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It's only been 2 weeks Erika. You don't need to decide about the furniture right now. Sounds like he is still blaming you for his drinking, he hasn't gotten real about any of it. You didn't Cause his drinking....so why risk listening to his crap again? I would suggest stay NC for now, give yourself a little time and space. When I went through a recovery program for family, I was taught to change the wording in a familiar phrase. "Don't just do something....Stand there!" In other words, we don't always have to take action right away on everything. Sometimes it's better to do nothing and give it time.

When you're ready, if you still want the furniture, you'll know what to do.
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