Think about it:
Who are the people who are here for you, telling you can do it? Who?
Why the people WHO HAVE done it, who are doing it, who have been where you are and know the way! They have no reason to deceive or kid you... they know this is serious.
Now who are the people who tell you that you DON'T have a problem, that you don't need to quit?
People who don't want to examine themselves, who don't want to question their own drinking behaviors.. . They have EVERY reason to deceive you! Because they want to go on deceiving themselves. They don't want to take this seriously...
So who are you going to BELIEVE? Who are you going to FOLLOW?