Hi RescueMe, and welcome.
I'm glad you will be looking at all your options.
I was one that spent a year with a counselor complaining about what other people did to me, and all the while I kept drinking. For some reason I was under the impression that if I exorcised my "demons", I would then be free to become a responsible drinker. Instead, my drinking worsened.
For me, nothing changed until I put the bottle down. I'm glad you have decided to change that. I couldn't imagine a life without alcohol, until I did it. The payoff has exceeded my expectations.
So, again, welcome...